The Little Things

It's been 365 (amazing) days since my best friend became my husband.

Though our wedding day was such a BIG day, it's the little details I think of when I look back. Together, these things helped tell so many stories — stories that reveal who we are as a couple, where we came from and where we want our marriage to go.

And since I encourage all my clients to incorporate meaningful items into their photos, I thought I'd share some of my own mementos here today.

Infinite thanks to Ashley Lester Photography for capturing the story of our day so beautifully.

1 / Something you collect
I started hunting down vintage cameras back in college, and this one — a 1950s Kodak Duaflex — is definitely a favorite. I don't remember where I found it, but I'll never forget when Tyler and I carefully cleaned it up and gave it a fresh roll of film.

In 2015, we used it to take one photo a month (the film has 12 frames). This year-long project encouraged us to think about what was important, what single moment would sum up 30 days. Take a look at our photos here.

I also used vintage cameras as part of our centerpieces.

2 / Something that represents a lost loved one
Never in a million years did I think my dad wouldn't be there to walk me down the aisle. But life has a cruel way of changing things without our permission.

To help keep his memory a part of our day, I wrapped one of his ties around my bouquet. I took comfort in knowing that at least some part of him was with me as I made my way toward a new chapter in my life.

3 / Family heirlooms and special gifts
In addition to my dad's tie, I also had my mom's garter and a handkerchief that my grandma has kept for me since I was little.

4 / Jewelry
One of the most special things I wore on my wedding day was a small gold and diamond necklace my dad gave my mom on their first Christmas together.

5 / Love letters
Instead of buying each other gifts just for the sake of tradition, Tyler and I decided to write letters. These heartfelt words were so much more meaningful than a new piece of jewelry or fancy watch — and ones that I can't wait to read over and over.